Does anyone always have to win?

 

Does anyone always have to win?

The words are inviting enough. 'Darling, this is a beautiful day, let's go cycling in the country'. But what starts out as a hilarious few hours together can become too quick to talk if a person can’t come ‘second’ and needs to be fast, fit, always have to win every end of the journey.

You may remember the coverage of the race where the runner in second place saw the man in front of him stop and clearly thought he would cross the finish line. Not wanting to win by running like this, he pushed the man over the finish line, later saying that he felt it was the right thing to do.

How tiring is it when someone has to always be right and win?

- Some people should always have the last word, over time they do not realize that they become funny and ridiculous personalities. Others will soon realize how ridiculous they are with their insistence on ending every discussion. Continuing the conversation and baiting them can almost become a joke!

- Then there are intermediate exchanges that revolve around examples and evidence-based recollections, the goal of which is to win each point by justifying their opinions, behaviors, or comments at 'I just did it because you did it'. And re-remembering can come back in time. How tiring it is to win!

- A combination of small things can always increase the desire to win. Over time, swallows and discharges grow, become increasingly annoying, and we feel that we have become dignified and not valued enough or respected enough. Big things often happen. They can freeze until they come out, sometimes with something that looks trivial

- Eventually feeling compelled to solve these ongoing minor problems can start to feel like a fight to win us over. But what if the other person rejects or disagrees with our point of view? May request more serious exchanges about who is right and who is wrong.

- And in fact, being okay doesn't always feel so good. Some people become accustomed to constant net picking and finding errors but many life-experiences are a compromise when we go out to dine with friends. Do you like to go out with the flow to enjoy the pleasure, to enjoy it more to relax? Our critical observations may be correct, but in the hope of deducting money from the bill, when we are directly monitoring, complaining, wasting everyone's evening, should we really consider it as true?

- Always win can be evidence of underlying problems and concerns. Those who consistently feel compelled to prove a statement may struggle with their confidence may feel insecure or may not feel in control of their lives. They may think that by being aware they will appear more knowledgeable, important and win the respect of others, not necessarily realizing that their behavior makes others feel stressed and uncomfortable.

- Sometimes it's important to ask yourself, 'Do I want to be right or can I be happier?' Screaming and shouting is not always a positive decision, 'Look, I told you I was right!' It is not always necessary to win.

Victory can sometimes be a personal victory, personally, it can be noticed that we have succeeded right, from the right side, but there is no need to shout about every fault, error or lack that we have witnessed. If others verify us so harshly, we will feel pressure, discomfort, and protest that we are only human. Remember that the journey was side by side, leaving some things and enjoying the experience, relaxing in each other’s company is a win in itself.

Of course, there are times when it is appropriate for us to compete, push ourselves, and try our best to win, but it is best to recognize those times when winning is a more subtle, low-key outcome. Winning is one aspect of a successful life.

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